On wanting to see her boyfriend: she is within her rights to ask, just like if the phone rings and sethrenn picks up and it's for us. If she asks politely (as she says she does) we would not think of it as a problem.

Shared knowledge is and has always been the norm here, which is not only why other people didn't catch that there were actually separate entities (fortunately for us!) but why our main frontrunners did not believe it was possible that we could be anything but a lot of imaginary friends. Groups that don't have this naturally can acquire it by practice or use notes and lists instead.