ext_302542 ([identity profile] mirrorbrothers.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] multiplicity_archives 2007-02-27 11:51 pm (UTC)

See, I think it's fair for her to want to spend time with her boyfriend rather than her boyfriend's headmates. Kind of the point of the whole dating thing is spending time together. Of course she should be polite. She should understand that the headmates are part of her boyfriend's life, and thus hers while they're dating. And she shouldn't expect the headmates to sit in back 24 hours a day. But except for the exceptions, I think a few interruption-free hours with her SO is a reasonable thing to ask.

This sounds like a job for scheduling. The guy with the girlfriend should be willing to "trade" time with her for front time when she's not around.

Johnny

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