I don't think its going to get to that stage. He's just sort of 'shut down' on me. I don't think he is even authorised to, tbh, as we are not officially recognised as couple under law. But he doesn't want to hear about it at all, gets distant and wierd whenever I bring something up. He seems to be determindly ignoring the signs of another person: the foods in the fridge I don't normally eat, walks and periods of spacing out. Tyb is getting pretty mad at his attitude, which is a bit hard to manage. We're working something out, but I live with a rather hot tempered headmate, lol.