I think that's one difficulty people have when trying to deal with multiples, is that every system is so very different! I operate as a dictatorship, really. Which is why I speak in the singular even when sometimes I mean all of us. I'm the core, and I'm the one in charge. My others are mine, and belong to me, and are part of me, and I run things. *grins* It's good to be Queen.

But of course that's not how most systems work. Which is fine! Everybody has to find what suits them, really. Which comes back to my original point, because not only is each person in a multiple system different, but on top of that each system works differently, so it becomes really complicated to try and figure out how to treat them.