*nods* I get the feeling that somebody out there has an appropriate word. I already use "shi" and "hir" for "she/he" and "him/her" on my other that's a true hermaphrodite, but it seems to me that bi-gendered and not-gendered would need different terms?

Not that big of a deal, on the long run, but it does sometimes annoy me to not be able to speak clearly about this.