Personally I think communication is always a good thing. I can understand his feelings about not wanting to reveal information about him self, tis always a pain when it's received badly. Overstate things and people laugh or mock, understate and typically they don't truly grasp what your saying.
I don't have much of a opinion on his earlier comments, they amuse me to be honest. There's a couple in here that can understand his, ah, Lust's shall we say. But they've come to realize that it's rather a problem indulging them these days. If talking to others helps him to calm down, it's a good thing. If all it does is rile him up and make him pissy and controlling, it's a bad thing /shrug.. Sorry for the long comment, I'm going to bed in a minute, and I have a bad habit of getting wordy when I'm tired.

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