Wow, how I *love* LJ's habit of "parameter missing" bollocks eating your comments. GG LJ!
To try and say again, only our newest member has problems, and that's mostly because he's a fucking dolt, and without thoughtsharing we're kind of scrabbling in the dark. We use LJ a lot, reading each other's entries. Occasional comments back and forth. You could use IM if it wasn't 'too fast', emails for slower. Letters, post it notes. A notebook for communication, use it like a message board everybody checks once a day. You could leave Word documents saved as "For XYZ" on the computer desktop.
As someone said above, music can be good for pulling people out of fuzziness/blendiness. We use it a lot. Various things that people enjoy. Like we discovered that I will come out almost no matter what at the prospect of sticking our head right under the shower (unlike Lu who would rather live with a washbasin if that was a requirement of showers). Or that I'll front almost instantly for my plants, where Lu will front almost instantly for anything 'shiny'.
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To try and say again, only our newest member has problems, and that's mostly because he's a fucking dolt, and without thoughtsharing we're kind of scrabbling in the dark. We use LJ a lot, reading each other's entries. Occasional comments back and forth. You could use IM if it wasn't 'too fast', emails for slower. Letters, post it notes. A notebook for communication, use it like a message board everybody checks once a day. You could leave Word documents saved as "For XYZ" on the computer desktop.
As someone said above, music can be good for pulling people out of fuzziness/blendiness. We use it a lot. Various things that people enjoy. Like we discovered that I will come out almost no matter what at the prospect of sticking our head right under the shower (unlike Lu who would rather live with a washbasin if that was a requirement of showers). Or that I'll front almost instantly for my plants, where Lu will front almost instantly for anything 'shiny'.