We have a rather perfectionistic approach to dealing with things. Many of us have abandoned the whole concept of genders, with the goal of keeping our body without any acceptance of it's gender. And as we try to function sharing the same consiousness of this physical form, we find too many objecting immediately to any intimate situations. So equality in this matter would be impossible, as we cannot "swap" control of our body. We are mostly a blur of identities, with some expressing themselves stronger at different seasons.