We have certain levels of access, varying from a vague summary of what happened to all out reliving of the events. Since the more in depth the memories, the longer it takes to review them, we ussually stick to the breif summaries. When we do have time and desire to go in depth, it gives a better understanding of why ther person did what they did and occassionally causes confusion because reliving the memories in their shoes makes it a shared memory, even if I wasn't there. Because of this confusion, I will also try to avoid doing this. Hope that helps.