She said No she said, they said

[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

We are having the weirdest experience with a outside friend of Tieas.
She'll often start a quetion with Tiea with "So where do YOU want to go"? Tiea will typicaly wait a second or two and listen to us to see if we have a special place in mindwere all rooting for and answer the friend.
Allot of times the friend will say "we' disagreed and "came out and said something differnt", if its not a place the friend wants to go to, or like a movieshe wants to see, the friend will blame it on "us " and say "well all your little people couldet decide so were not going anywhere" If she's driving.

Or Tiea will end up some place she did not want to be and the frind will say "So and so said No" This is so NOT true and Tiea is catching on . We first off dont like being called "the little people" But to end up at a movie or club none of us wanted to go to and have it blamed on s is bothersome.

Has anyone had something like this happen? Were not sure weather one of us should say something( seperatly) to her(the friend)or wait for Tiea to say "No I was here and nobody switched at all" I dont think I'm explaining this well. But this outside friend will blame "us " "the little people inside "She even has called us "the munckins" Tiea just hung up the phone on her .
Peace Shelby

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[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

Hymm Very interetsing!Are you a lawyer Just wondering cause you speak in terms our cousins use like plausable deniablility , and denible and such anyways we cant really say we dont exsist cause we do and, have all spoken to her and her to us for years now, and we are outed on the job anyways. If we recanted that our exsistence was real everything else taht went with how we were born would beconsidered a lie and we are not in a position to make Tiea look like aliar especially Now ( because of circumstances0

Most people do not have a problem with it if it does not stop one from paying there taxes I've found. Ha ha No really I see what your saying. because our Mom was parinoid schizophrenic and from young we learned it was easier for her and us if we just agreed with her hallucianations and what not like radios and things were saying stuff about us or if we were playing Scrabble we were talking about her with our board words But were not saying imposturous things like "lets all hide the FBI is after us" Or" see that Helicopter that flew by your Dad hired it to spy on us" or
lets bolt the door now kids theres a killer lose and he is headiing straight for this house my angel told me see the angel "And I know one could compare our Moms angel to us cause tehy cannot se the angel But our Moms angel always thought someone wa killing someone .
We dont have those dellusions

Well we would all agree cause it would calm her down cause she got worse and would argue.

Kathy will ask me "Have you checked with Jade? or does Toni need anything at the store?" or "Tiea why dont you and all your "little people" make a list before we go shopping it will save time, and everyone wil get what tehy want "So the friend starts it.Its not like I come out and say Hey Kathy dont listen to Tiea shes a bit off today we want to go clubbing and not a movie Then she( Kathy) denies that we made the list or asked Toni about the store or checked with Jade when we did so its not that she is denying we exsist its that she is playing us off one another to get what she wants... ie going to the club ...and saying we came out and said we wanted to go . But we see your pointwhat you mean Thanks Shelby

[duathir.livejournal.com]

No, I am not a lawyer. 'Plausible deniability' is technically a legal term, but it is frequently seen in common usage.

It sounds as if your erstwhile friend already believes you to be a liar, so you would not lose much by corroborating that belief. However, I do not suggest this as an initial strategy; only as an option to consider if and when she begins a campaign to discredit you in the eyes of others.