we have members that have trouble getting and holding the face too. i personally have trouble giving it up.
we use alot of tricks to try to regulate switching.
-trigger abuse. a number of us have natural triggers, we abuse those. candy can be 'summoned' by playing loud music, synch can be summoned by thinking about logic puzzles. we've also had luck reprogramming our triggers.
-wanting it. its easier to front if you want to front, its easier to 'throw' if you want someone else to front.
-clothes. take ownership of clothes, and wear them appropriately.
-purpose. it might rattle people to say this, but get people up, figure out what people are particularly good at or enjoy, and make it their thing. have them handle it at least most of the time.
Another thing, keep in mind it may not necessarily vital to your overall systems health to have everyone fronting. if it never happens, plenty of perfectly content systems have solo fronters, so dont feel like a failure or nothing.
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i personally have trouble giving it up.
we use alot of tricks to try to regulate switching.
-trigger abuse. a number of us have natural triggers, we abuse those. candy can be 'summoned' by playing loud music, synch can be summoned by thinking about logic puzzles. we've also had luck reprogramming our triggers.
-wanting it. its easier to front if you want to front, its easier to 'throw' if you want someone else to front.
-clothes. take ownership of clothes, and wear them appropriately.
-purpose. it might rattle people to say this, but get people up, figure out what people are particularly good at or enjoy, and make it their thing. have them handle it at least most of the time.
Another thing, keep in mind it may not necessarily vital to your overall systems health to have everyone fronting. if it never happens, plenty of perfectly content systems have solo fronters, so dont feel like a failure or nothing.
good luck
-Lovecry