Welcome to the community! As regards your questions...
What kinds of things are you interested in? What are your hobbies? Do you have friends outside the system? When someone (single or multiple) has organized their life around a specific goal or purpose, sometimes it can be hard to find a meaning or motivation for one's life when that's done with.
You may not be able to have a 'normal' relationship in the sense of two bodies with one person each (our culture's model for a proper relationship), but it is possible for multiples to have long-term and fulfilling relationships. We're in one with another multiple and happy with it.
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What kinds of things are you interested in? What are your hobbies? Do you have friends outside the system? When someone (single or multiple) has organized their life around a specific goal or purpose, sometimes it can be hard to find a meaning or motivation for one's life when that's done with.
You may not be able to have a 'normal' relationship in the sense of two bodies with one person each (our culture's model for a proper relationship), but it is possible for multiples to have long-term and fulfilling relationships. We're in one with another multiple and happy with it.