Oops... do I adapt to the discrepencies? Yes & no. Usually after a bit I go "Oh, right... flat chested, male body (yuk)" and then the feeling passes, sometimes not & it's a continual suprise to find I'm not physically matching my self-image. It's nothing that needs adapting to as it dosn't prove a problem.

The best way to deal with it is to get dressed up (see my LJ pic as opposed to Ash's) so my physicality matches (as close as physics and biology allow) my self-image