I dont know enough about this topic to comment. I am in the process of reading some books and trying to get the done before I start classes on the 26. I know for me I just feel so helpless because for one I feel so far away. I care about him a lot and I dont want to lose his friendship. He wont let me near him as long as he is this bad.

I do know that he is upset at discovering more alters, and losing the intragration that he had. His life is falling apart had the tip of his fingers and he feels helpless. I have sat on the phone listening to him cry, and offering as much comfort as he would let me give.

HIs alters are popping in in the middle of work, while driving, at the gym, while dealing with his kids. This grown man is frightened to death.

He has stopped going to the gym (he was lifting up to 700 pounds), he has stopped riding his pride and joy (a harley) for few that it will kill him. He is basically starting to put the life he was living on hold because of what is going on. He is so weak, that he literally got into a motor cycles accident night before last when one of his alters took over. He had to lay his bike down, other wise he would have been killed in a side swipe.

I am worried sick about him.