Totally.
I was doing this about 4-5 years before I came across the soulbonding community, and at first I was quite pleased to find others, but over time I've just found that a lot of people are just playing, or do, through a combo of hormones and teen ideals, think they're genuine when they may not be. If it's a phase, they'll grow out of it. But I haven't.
Theres still time to, I mean I'm not that far out of my teens (I'm 21) but I've become stable in a lot of other areas of my life in the last 2-3 years, and the level of interaction between me and them hasn't changed.
Can I be quite blunt here and say that It's a bit depressing reading all the members of this com who're actually saying "OMG soulbonders bad"... I mean... I was a member of both coms (and soul_assemblage) for some time. I left this year because I beleive that I wasn't going to get any answers because every system is different. And thats why it's so important not to make such a generalisation, because everybody's going to have different experiences, based on their life in this world as well as what goes on inside. It's always going to be different. I came to the conclusion that whatever went on with me, it was going to go on, and I would be best dealing with it in my own way. But I think thats me veering off-topic now *nods*
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