while ~i~ don't use 'we', they're willing to. but i think they tend to mean their group, and i'm always 'she/her'... rarely is my name used. and i don't know why. this is known to me by IMs they leave on my screen after talking to one of my friends/my boyfriend (i'm very scared to have more than two people on AIM for this reason)..

i don't think it was ever ~agreed~ persay that i be at the front. in fact, i think one is very bitter that she isn't. i know she's threatened to kill us, so she wouldn't have to deal with sharing. greedy little... >_>; sigh.

i know that mine come out in public. i don't really know how to describe how i know i'm not in front though. i lose time by my own means (i have no sense of direction/time, for some reason, poor me :D) so i don't think that's any of them... what a confusing way to be. :/