Hola

[changelyng14.livejournal.com]

My apologies for asking about a charged and likely tired subject, but there's something I need to know.
This isn't really something we are considering but it's about integration.

I've heard huge amounts of information about it, but the one and only question I care about gets me evasive fantastic-sounding answers that have little to do with, in my mind, the question.

If my system hired some quack to 'integrate' us, and he was successful. What EXACTLY will happen?
will I exist? Will my mates exist? will we really be this exciting 'blend' of all of us? or is that just what quacks tell splits to make splits like the idea?
I 'mix' with my mates quite alot, and the 'whatever' that we become is no more them then me. Is that what integration does?
Is it normal for a split to fear death in face of integration in the same way its 'normal' for a singlet to fear death when their head is on a chopping block?
Is a 'being' post-integrated a reliable source to explain what happened to them? Are there any post-integrates willing to explain what they've figured out about it in the sort of language I've gotten used to?

I'm very ignorant of this topic, I rarely find anything on the subject but things written to a singlet audience.

Thanks

Synch of Changelyng

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[gryphons.livejournal.com]

Greetings all,
we have a question... and I realize this probably isn't a nice way to introduce ourselves.. first short intro is in order I suppose. We're Gryphon Household (Gryphons).. there's about 50 of us .. at least the active ones(well there were).. ummm.. My name's Micah-el.. and I'm sorta the default frontperson.. at least right now.. We sorta had a major meltdown a few weeks ago.. that left only one person around.. nobody else would come near the front.. and he couldn't talk to anyone (internally we mean) .. Considering the size of our house.. to say that things didn't go well would be an understatement.Right now there are like 3 adults and two kids around.. but things are pretty much wrecked. . This is the second time in a little over a year that something like this has occured.

Now to the question/request for advice:
Any advice about how to get people to come back out.. find them/help them get back on their feet would be greatly appreciated.. We don't have a t right now.. (long story).. so we're doing everything on our own.