Frankly, I wouldn't so much as give her the time of day; it shows that people are paying attention to her, which is what she wants. Additionally, you've pointed out that negative reviews are deleted; so it wouldn't do much good. But I thank you for this response.

You and your spouse are welcome on this community. There aren't really protocols as such; each person says their piece, perhaps asks questions, and then others may or may not respond. Introductions are fine, but are not required.

There are links on the info page (http://community.livejournal.com/multiplicity/profile) that may be of help in understanding where some of the membership (ourselves included) are coming from, although the community is open to all views and types of plurality. Again, thank you.