Oh replying to myself, I don;t think I have written this much on this forum before. And I think this touched onto a bit of bitterness on my part. Now for the record I am not implying anyone here is actually doing this. I just get annoyed at multiplicity being used as the victim, get out of jail free card. They know I am multiple they should have known. It's not my fault how can I be expected to be responsible..I'm multiple. So it's a sore spot for me, hence why the flurry of posts.