Huh. Well, I'm the second one whose come back. But then again when Gilia left, she didn't integrate or anything... just left the other world we live in. Took her house and a good chunk of land with her too. She came back after three or four months I wanna say.

So, it can happen. I myself never expected or intended to come back and initially it was unwelcome. I suddenly had to exist again and it was a little tricky to remember how. The first week or so I faded in and out.

And of course it was odd suddenly being tossed into the middle of this relationship we're all in but hey, that's no biggie. I even managed to hit it off rather nicely with our fiance's primary alter. So hey, I really don't mind being back after all.

Anyway, glad to give you some hope.