You know, balding fat men in their 40s can be multiple too (I know, I'm married to one). So I am wondering if the girl he was "posing" as, is actually a girl in his system. I never saw the posts (or at least I don't remember them) so I don't know if he was claiming that his *body* was 18 and female, and now the journal is deleted the evidence is lost. I think the lesson here though is a plain one; don't give out your address or your real phone number on the 'net. Anyway... in any other community I think the case would be clear-cut but when you take the multiplicity into account it becomes an entirely different can of worms and if he was genuinely multiple then I feel really sad for the whole situation.